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Hello Jeffery/Elsabolt
Thank you for contacting the Sony Online Entertainment Customer Service department.
We have been seeing many problems with winmodem (aka, "software" or "emulated" modems). These software-based modems can cause numerous connectivity problems, not just in our game but in general. The reason is because the CPU may not be able to make the necessary game calculations AND transmit data. we strongly recommend against using them and if you have one, we suggest that you purchase or acquire a hardware-based modem. There is no fix or work-around for your connection problems, however here are a few tips which may help make the problems bearable.
There are differences in the designs of Winmodems. Some, like the Rockwell/Conexant Soft56, PCTel, and others have the host processor (your PC's CPU) do all of the work, and require a mmx processor. These modems are inexpensive and have the minimum amount of hardware and software to run. The better design has a powerful DSP chip (effectively a CPU) on the modem, and the host processor has a significantly lower load.
Some v90 modems have difficulty receiving the thpe of data packets that we send. Try using a non-v90 connection to your ISP, if it is available. Otherwise, try lowering the speed of your modem connection for more stability. Do this by right clickiing on your "My computer" icon and select "Properties" form the menu. Click on the Device Manager tab and open the Modem section. Select the Modem tab, and set the Maximun speed to 57600 (or 38400 if it was already set to 57600), then click OK.
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Sony Online Entertainment CSR